Grinding mimics the “humping” motion that many people learn to

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Other nice-to-haves include an intuitive button display, a travel lock, and a fully waterproof design (shower sex, anyone?). “If you’re looking for a versatile vibe that can be used on almost all body parts, the Tango X is the ideal option,” according to O’Reilly. It has seven vibration modes, eight intensity levels, and is super easy to use.

The other (a.k.a. the handle) is a 5.75-inch long dildo with a motor inside that enables it to vibrate, twist, and twirl, so it can also target your G-spot—talk about multitasking. And since each side has a separate motor, you can use them independently. To help you out, we created the ultimate list of our very favorite sex toys for all.

It’s both a clitoral and internal stimulator and is a source of “pleasure for both partners,” according to one tester. Grinding mimics the “humping” motion that many people learn to masturbate with (say, against a pillow), as well as the thrusting motions that people with penises do during penetrative sex. Toys elevate the sensation of grinding by adding vibration, texture, or other stimulating features. The noisy, room-shaking sex toys of years past have graduated to sleek, high-quality, and near-silent designs that don’t sacrifice power for discretion. From suction vibrators that are all about the clit, to precise G-spot vibrators, to backdoor action anal vibrators, there are a ton of whisper-quiet vibrators that get you there without waking up the whole house. Cue the Greek chorus, this is the ultimate trifecta of suction sex toys.

It’s an especially travel-friendly vibe, too, due to its compact size , its convenient travel-lock function, and the storage case it comes with. While vibrators have historically been—and remain—one of the best sex toys for women, men can also benefit—whether by taking the controls, or getting some prostate or perineum stimulation. Vibrators are also helpful when dealing with sensitivity issues that make it hard for you to feel pleasure or reach orgasm, such as being on antidepressants, which can tamp down sensation. An orgasm isn’t a cure, but a vibrator might be just the thing to push you over the edge and at least put a smile on your face. We tested the Zalo Bess as an alternative to the Zumio S. Like the Zumio S, the Zalo Bess has a narrow tip for precise stimulation.

The Lelo Hugo remote control vibrator promises to give you longer, more intense climaxes. If you’re feeling frisky, you can even hand over control to your partner—thanks to the Ferri’s wireless range, they can make you quiver from up to 30 feet away. The SenseMotion™ technology responds to movements of the remote, so you can get your groove on without having to worry about fumbling with buttons. And if that wasn’t enough, the LYLA 2 has almost silent vibrations, so you can enjoy yourself without worrying about the neighbors.

On the website, the Cherry is listed as being waterproof with an IPX7 rating, meaning that you should be able to submerge the toy in about a meter of water for around 30 minutes. After struggling to insert the charger initially, and realizing that the entry point for it really wasn’t all that concealed, I ended up deciding not to test out submerging the toy. You can get more than just fruit-shaped vibrators from Emojibator—the brand sells multicolored bondage rope, anal plugs, lube, and more. This luxurious-looking vibrator earned top marks thanks to its sleek vibrator, modern design and noise control, with the majority of our panel finding it quiet in use.

As a result, this is one of the few vibrating cock rings that can also bring some extra sauce to your solo endeavors. A ring’s vibrations can hit your partner’s clitoris or perineum—depending on what they’re working with, and how you’re working the angles. As an added effect, they’ll essentially turn your dick into a vibrator.

After a few glasses of wine, I worked up the courage to do the asking. Of these three wands, the Doxy is the one that’s corded (though both Hitachi and Le Wand have corded options, too). While it almost seems archaic to have a wired toy, I see the appeal of using the Doxy. Hitachi’s vibration patterns range from a consistent vibration to a quick pulse to a rev-up-to-slow-down and repeat. The Doxy is the least expensive toy as it starts at just under $120, $15 less than Hitachi. One benefit of the Doxy, however, is that it’s highly customizable from the head to the collar to the buttons to the color of the wand itself.